Our world is getting more complex and dangerous for kids every day. How do we best protect them so that they will survive?
Resist the urge to overprotect!
Like vaccinations for physical disease, parents who apply Love and Logic allow their kids to develop decision-making “antibodies” by being exposed to plenty of small temptations, by being allowed to make plenty of small mistakes, and by being loved enough to be held accountable for their poor decisions.
It makes sense that if our child is about to run into a busy intersection or jam a fork into an electrical outlet, we’re going to step in. But how do we respond when the temptations they face have much smaller, more affordable price tags?
Lucky is the child whose parents are brave enough to let them make the mistake of wasting their allowance on bubble gum. Even luckier is the child whose parents also hold them accountable by refusing to give in when they beg for more cash.
Lucky is the child whose parents are brave enough to let them make the mistake of watching TV instead of finishing their science fair project. Even luckier is the child whose parents love them enough to resist the urge to do the project for them.
Yes! Lucky indeed is the child who understands through experience that every decision has its consequences.